• I have several vibrators from Toyfriend and I really them. I like the brand in general, so when they came out with the Bossy rabbit vibrator, I was intrigued. Fortunately, FunWares, is carrying it so I had the opportunity to play with my very own Bossy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

• Toyfriend Vibrators come in fun shapes and colors and unusual designs which is one of the reasons I like them. Another reason is their amazingly smooth and slick silicone. The Toyfriend Bossy is red silicone that is so slippery it doesn’t attract dust or lint at all. I just love this particular silicone. Of course, it is latex and phthalate-free, hypoallergenic, non-porous and body-safe so it is awesome in all sorts of ways. Caring for and cleaning silicone is a breeze. You can use antibacterial soap and warm water, your favorite sex toy cleaner, or a 10% bleach solution. Though silicone can be boiled and washed in the top drawer of your dishwasher without soap, do not do this with your Toyfriend Bossy as it has electrical parts that will be destroyed.

 

• As far as lubricant goes, be sure to use water-based lube with your Toyfriend Bossy. Silicone-based lubricant can interact with the silicone of the vibrator and damage the surface. For this reason, store your Toyfriend Bossy in its box or a storage bag so that it does not touch other silicone toys for long periods of time. Of course, you also don’t want your lovely smooth silicone rubbing up against other soft materials like jelly. Then again, why do you still have jelly toys in your collection anyway??

 

• Speaking of its box, the Toyfriend Bossy comes in the typical Toyfriend packaging, a cardboard box with a cutout window. It says “I VIBRATE” on both sides of the box and while it is not discreet, it is certainly cute. The text on the back is playful and refers to the Toyfriend Bossy in the first person, like it’s your new pet. Inside the box, the Toyfriend Bossy sits inside a plastic clamshell on a little plastic stand. This plastic stand allows Bossy to stand upright which is great for displaying it if that’s your thing, or just keeping on your bedside table. While I can appreciate Toyfriend’s simple packaging, I really wish they would include a storage bag with their vibrators.

 

 

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

• What I do love about Toyfriend packaging is the included batteries. I always say vibrators that run on batteries should always come with them and Toyfriend believes in this as well. They include the 2 AAA batteries required for your Toyfriend Bossy. The batteries are already inserted into the vibrator with a little piece of paper that says, “I AM A TICKLER” blocking the connection so the batteries don’t run down. I kept this little paper and store my batteries this way. Of course, it is a good idea to remove your batteries and store them separately to prolong their life and that of the vibrator but this method also works for me.

 

• One of the things I love about the Toyfriend Bossy is that it is waterproof. The threads are super long so it takes a while to unscrew it, but this ensures its waterproofness. That is so totally a word! So as long as you screw the cap shut very tightly you should be good to go. It works great under running water and I have submerged it in the sink without issue but I am nervous about taking it in the bathtub. I’m just a bit paranoid that way.

 

• The Toyfriend Bossy is a rather unusual rabbit style vibrator. Typically, you have a vibrating or rotating shaft meant for internal stimulation, with an attached external piece meant to stimulate the clit. The Bossy has turned it around. In this case, the external clit stimulator, is actually the piece you hold on to and manipulate, while the internal piece is a silicone dildo that extends from the rabbit shaft. The dildo is firm but provides no internal vibration or rotation. The shaft of the vibrator where the motor is located is shaped like rabbit with a nose and one big ear. The Toyfriend Bossy is 8″ from base to the tip of the ear, with 3.5″ of this length in the ear. The dildo is almost 5.75″ long and a little over 1.25″ in diameter. It also says, “tickler” on the side like all the Toyfriend vibrators.

 

• The vibrations of the Toyfriend Bossy are also like that of my other Toyfriend vibrators. There are two levels of steady vibration and three different patterns. Unlike most vibrators, Bossy starts on the higher level of vibration. All three patterns also vibrate at the higher level.

 

• 1. Higher level straight vibration
  2. Lower level straight vibration
  3. Strong one pulse pattern buuuuzzzz buuuuzzzz
  4. Faster pulsation buuzz buuzz buuzz. Fastest pulsation buz buz buz buz

 

• It is very easy to work the Toyfriend Bossy. To turn it on you simply press the button on the bottom of the vibrator once. You press this button again to cycle through the steady vibrations and pulsation patterns. To turn the Bossy off, you hold down on the button for two seconds. Bossy always starts in the same place, with the highest steady vibration, no matter where you turn it off.

 

• The vibrations of the Toyfriend vibrators do work well for me. They are on the deeper side, though not as throbby as some of my other vibes. The Toyfriend Bossy is not terribly loud. You can hear it more or less through the covers in a silent room, but definitely cannot hear it through my bedroom door.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

• So far there is much to love about my Toyfriend Bossy. However, the problems come when I actually use it. While I do like the dildo piece of the Bossy and it feels good inside me, thrusting with it is a bit of a challenge because it gets awfully wobbly at its base. The biggest issue though is the rabbit piece. No matter how I try an arrange the vibrator it just doesn’t fit my body right. With the dildo all the way inside my body, neither the ear nor the nose come anywhere near my clit. To get the rabbit nose to hit my clit I can only insert the the dildo part way. Unfortunately, this position only gets the rabbit nose close to my clit and leaves the ear hitting me up on my pubic bone. No amount of fidgeting allows the rabbit to hit me just right and I have given up on having an orgasm with this vibrator. This is a huge disappointment for me because I really want to love my Toyfriend Bossy.

 

• Toyfriend Bossy Pros:
  • Good vibrations
  • Awesome lint-free silicone
  • Waterproof
  • Comes with batteries

 

• Toyfriend Bossy Cons:
  • Doesn’t fit my body
  • No storage bag

 

• Granted the Toyfriend Bossy is a battery-operated vibrator but there are really so many great things about it. The silicone is smooth and slick and does not pick up lint or dust at all, which is uncommon for silicone. Need I mention it is also bright red? The Bossy is waterproof and relatively quiet. The vibrations are nice and strong and on the deep side. I love weird looking sex toys and the Bossy just looks so damn cool. Unfortunately, it just doesn’t fit my body at all. So while I want to love and give it a high score, how can I when I can’t even orgasm with it? I know there are some reviewers who love to write negative reviews, but I want to love my sex toys and I feel so let down by the Toyfriend Bossy.

 

• However, just because it doesn’t fit my body does not mean it won’t work for someone else. Not only does FunWares carry Bossy, but they also carry my favorite Toyfriend, the Curvy. I totally love my Curvy Vibe. So if you are thinking that Bossy won’t fit your body either, I highly recommend the Curvy.

 

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